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Refocusing on my goals November 28, 2008

Posted by thinkphd in : Miscellaneous , trackback

We often talk about setting goals, but forget the importance of motivation. Setting a deadline helps keep focus on goals by organizing thoughts or ideas. This stimulates action because you are working to meet the deadline. Sometimes a public deadline is more effective than a private one…most of us tend to cheat on personal deadlines!  Things will always get in the way and something will go invariably go wrong. We must build focus toward our goals. Most of us are personally disorganized and blame everything on procrastination. However, procrastination is a choice, albeit the easiest choice. If we put things off and satisfy the “lazy side” in us, the momentum behind our goals slips away. Personal disorganization leads to procrastination and limits effectiveness. I struggle with disorganization and blame it all on how busy I am. Nevertheless, this is not an excuse. It is difficult to stay focused when I have so much on my plate! Dividing my time between work, school and personal life gets very complicated. It takes a lot to stay focused, and I have to admit, I fail many times. So now I am taking another look at my goals and refocusing my motivation. The last two months have been very difficult, but I have the support and encouragement of my family and I will continue this path!

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1. Susan - December 4, 2008

I came across your blog while looking in to Northcentral’s reviews. I’m scheduled to begin the PhD in Bus Admin this January. I’m putting you on my favorite list so I can keep track of your progress.

Like you, I’m balancing a full time job with family (three boys age 6, 4, and 2) and school. I finished my MBA just after I delivered my third child. I just wanted to thank you for giving your time and effort to write this blog. It’s a great help to read about the experiences of others when making such a huge decision about additional schooling. Given your experience in education and in researching various institutions, it was also encouraging that you chose Northcentral.

I wish I could give you some enlightening words of encouragement to help you when dealing with sick parents, work and school. I’m too practical a person for “you can do it” or “hang in there”. What kept me going when I was working on my MBA was “you’ve spent too much money to quit now!” (Ha Ha).

I look forward to many more posts by you and the ultimate news that your new title is Doctor.